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Suffer The Little Children

"Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not; for of such is the kingdom of God." Mark 10:14 Suffer, (v); permit, experience		"3-year-old beaten to death by mother's boyfriend" - Newspapers across America Suffer, (v); undergo pain, injury, grief

Anything you do to support kids and parents can help reduce the stress that often leads to abuse and neglect.

Reach Out

Be a friend to a parent you know. Ask how their children are doing. Draw on your own experiences to provide reassurance and support. If a parent seems to be struggling, offer to baby-sit or run errands, or just lend a friendly ear. Show you understand.
Be a friend to a child you know. Remember their names. Smile when you talk with them. Ask them about their day at school. Send them a card in the mail. Show you care.

Talk to your neighbors about looking out for one another’s children. Encourage a supportive spirit among parents in your apartment building or on your block. Show that you are involved.

Give your used clothing, furniture and toys for use by another family. This can help relieve the stress of financial burdens that parents sometimes take out on their kids.

Volunteer your time and money for programs in your community that support children and families, like parent support groups or day care centers.

Child abuse and neglect occur in all segments of our society, but the risk factors are greater in families where parents:

Remember the Risk Factors

* Seem to be having economic, housing or personal problems
* Are isolated from their family or community
* Have difficulty controlling anger or stress
* Are dealing with physical or mental health issues
* Abuse alcohol or drugs
* Appear uninterested in the care, nourishment or safety of their children

By helping parents who might be struggling with any of these challenges, you reduce the likelihood that their children will be abused or neglected. Reach out to the children, too, and show them that you care.

The behavior of children may signal abuse or neglect long before any change in physical appearance. Some of the signs may include:

Recognize the Warning Signs

* Nervousness around adults
* Aggression toward adults or other children
* Inability to stay awake or to concentrate for extended periods
* Sudden, dramatic changes in personality or activities
* Unnatural interest in sex
* Frequent or unexplained bruises or injuries
* Low self-esteem
* Poor hygiene

If you see these signs in any children you know, reach out to them and to their parents and offer a helping hand.

If you suspect abuse or neglect may be occurring, report it. To find out how, call information or contact your department of social services listed under government agencies in the phone book. If you think a child is in immediate danger, call the police.

Report Suspected Abuse or Neglect

Please check out the links page for organizations that can be of help.